Generation Z stands out for its natural ease with technology and strong drive to support meaningful social causes. Yet one trait keeps surfacing in discussions about this age group. Many notice a clear gap in everyday social abilities that this cohort may not celebrate. Lately even young people from within Generation Z have started raising their voices about the matter.
Content creator Halina recently shared her candid views in a popular TikTok video. She attends Michigan State University and draws from her own experiences on campus. When she sits next to a stranger in class and tries to spark a casual chat the reaction often surprises her. The other student might scan the room quickly as if fearing someone might judge the simple exchange.
Halina makes it clear she holds no high expectations for instant close bonds. She believes light conversation should feel normal in shared spaces like lecture halls. Instead she sees many peers acting distant and uneasy during these moments. Her message highlights how such patterns have become widespread among her generation.
Social anxiety could play a big role in these behaviors according to recent research. A study from Harmony Healthcare IT reveals that over half of Generation Z members feel anxious on a daily basis. Common triggers include worries about the future finances jobs socializing and relationships. Dr. Janeé Steele who contributes to the National Center for Social Anxiety notes that people with this condition often fear they will say or do something embarrassing that invites criticism.
Constant phone use adds another layer to the challenge. Sherry Turkle from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology has spent years examining how digital habits shape human connections. She observes that heavy reliance on devices can make it harder for individuals to fully engage with others in person. Many treat people around them more like background elements than real conversation partners.
Statistics back up these concerns about device dependency. Thirty seven percent of Generation Z adults say their phones disrupt daily activities work and personal bonds. Another fifty seven percent admit they panic when their battery dies or internet access drops. This constant pull toward screens likely keeps interactions brief and guarded.
@groovyrockerchick Guys can we all be more normal and open please #genz #millenials #socialskills #emotionallystunted #stunted ♬ original sound – Halina
The effects reach far beyond college classrooms and casual meetups. Halina warns that such habits will not fly in professional settings where many from her generation are now stepping in. Building networks and collaborating with colleagues demands comfort in face to face exchanges. Without those skills everyday work life and even romantic connections can suffer unnecessary strain.
Developing stronger social abilities remains possible with awareness and small steps. Practicing light conversations in low pressure settings can build confidence over time. Older generations faced their own hurdles and adapted through effort and experience. Generation Z can draw on that same resilience while leveraging their unique strengths.
Have you spotted these social patterns in your own circle or felt them personally. Share your thoughts in the comments.
