I recently came across a viral video where a criminal defense attorney shared some eye-opening advice about handling traffic stops. She explained that police officers often ask specific questions designed to trick drivers into admitting guilt before they even realize what is happening.
It is natural to feel nervous when you see flashing lights in your rearview mirror, but staying calm is crucial. I learned that your instinct to be helpful and chatty can actually work against you in these situations. The attorney suggests keeping your answers short and polite without offering extra information.
The first trap is the classic question, “Do you know why I pulled you over?”
Most people try to guess the reason, effectively confessing to speeding or running a stop sign. The lawyer advises simply saying, “No, officer, I don’t.” This forces the officer to state the reason for the stop themselves.
Another common trick is asking, “Do you know how fast you were going?”
If you answer with a specific number, you have just provided evidence that can be used to write you a ticket. Even if you guess a lower speed, admitting you were over the limit is still a confession. The recommended response is a polite “No.”
Officers might also ask, “Where are you coming from?” or “Where are you headed?”
I was surprised to learn that you do not have to answer this. These questions are often used to look for inconsistencies in your story or to find a reason to search your vehicle. A simple “I would rather not discuss my day” is a safe reply.
The fourth question to watch out for is, “Have you had anything to drink tonight?”
While you must step out of the car if asked, you are not always required to answer incriminating questions depending on local laws. The attorney notes that admitting to “just one beer” provides enough probable cause for a breathalyzer test or an arrest.
Finally, be wary if an officer asks, “Is there anything in the car I should know about?”
This is often a lead-in to asking for consent to search your vehicle. Answering “No” is the best policy here, as you do not want to inadvertently give permission for a search.
@kylaleelawyer These are the top 5 questions police use to trick you and get you to admit that you did something wrong. You should never answer questions from the police unless you are legally obligated to do so. #lawyer #lawyersoftiktok #lawtok #duilawyer #vancouver #cdnpoli #canadianlaw #bcpoli #bclaw #kylalee #fyp #dui #police #driving #drivinglawyer #drivinglaw ♬ original sound – Kyla Lee
The main takeaway from her advice is that silence is often your best defense. You can be respectful and cooperative about providing your license and registration without giving away your rights. I think this perspective is incredibly valuable for anyone who drives.






